Amy Winehouse: September 14, 1983 - July 23, 2011
Hello friends. Usually here at Player Highlife, we like to take a look at the good life and positive things; but every once in a while, we like to be able to look back and reflect on the past as well. Today's blog entry is dedicated to the British singer/songwriter sensation, Amy Winehouse.
(courtesy of People Magazine)
"Amy Winehouse was only 5'2", but with her swoosh of black eyeliner and towering beehive – which she called her "secret weapon"– she was larger than life. But the troubled singer's killer 'do and remarkable talent couldn't save her from her well-publicized demons: At 27, the British songbird was found dead in her London home.
Back to Black – a brutally honest retelling of her breakup with Blake Fielder-Civil – sold more than 3 million copies. But in 2007, the brilliant Brit was hospitalized for a drug overdose, checked into – and out of – rehab, and got busted for drug possession. She reunited with and married Fielder-Civil, only to have him hauled off to jail (they eventually divorced).
In January 2008, Winehouse entered rehab weeks before winning five Grammys, including Record of the Year, Song of the Year and Best New Artist. Three years later, the singer returned to rehab, only to be found dead two months later in her apartment."
(courtesy of The Guardian)
To some she was a troubled rock star struggling with her demons, to others an astonishing voice with an excess of talent, but to her parents Amy Winehouse was their "angel", and at a private funeral they have said goodbye.
Her father, Mitch Winehouse, ended a 40-minute eulogy during which he talked about his daughter's childhood and her talent, with the words: "Mummy and Daddy love you ever so much."
Hundreds of the singer's family and close friends, including Mark Ronson, the producer of her hugely successful album Back To Black, and long-standing friend Kelly Osbourne, flew from around the world to pay their respects to the singer who died, aged 27, at her home in Camden, north London on Saturday.
Winehouse told the mourners that his daughter had been off drugs for three years, and was working hard to combat her alcoholism, had found love again and "was the happiest she has been for years".
A service was held at the Edgwarebury cemetery in north London, before Winehouse's body was taken to the Golders Green crematorium, where her grandmother was cremated. The family then headed to Schindler Hall in Southgate for the beginning of a shiva - a traditional period of mourning in the Jewish faith.
In a statement Winehouse said his daughter had "conquered her drug dependency" and was "trying hard" to deal with her drinking. "Amy was the greatest daughter, family member and friend you could ever have," he said. "Recently Amy found love with Reg. He helped her with her problems and Amy was looking forward to their future together. She was the happiest she has been for years. We all remember that great night at the 100 Club on Oxford Street, her voice was good, her wit and timing were perfect."
He added his daughter had seen his mother, Janis, on Friday as well as her boyfriend, film director Reg Traviss. On the night before she was found dead she was in her room singing and playing drums, he added. A security guard had checked on her in the morning and thought she was asleep, he checked again a few hours later and then raised the alarm,. "But knowing she wasn't depressed, knowing she passed away, knowing she passed away happy, it makes us all feel better."
The first service, which included prayers in English and Hebrew, ended with a rendition of Carole King's So Far Away, Winehouse's favourite song. Earlier King, whose song Will You Love Me Tomorrow was covered by Winehouse, said she was "very grateful" the star had "put her wonderful talent" into recording the track.
Alfie Ezekiel, a friend of her father's, said: "Mitch gave a very good eulogy and he managed to get through it very well, considering." Mitch Winehouse had been the only family member to speak during the service, attended by around 300-400 people. "It was very moving," he said.
Speaking outside the crematorium at Golders Green, another family friend who gave his name only as "Ginger" said that as guests had left the service each had kissed the coffin goodbye . "He [Mitch] seemed very brave, very proud of her." His wife added that as a teenager Winehouse would sit at the kitchen table scribbling lyrics. "Nobody will forget her. Everyone is proud of her, what she became was so temporary."
Fans gathered to pay tribute to the singer. A woman who had brought a single red rose said she wanted to pay tribute to Winehouse and her "wonderful" voice, but she was sparing a thought for her troubled former husband Blake Fielder-Civil, currently serving time at Armley prison in Leeds for burglary and a firearms offence. "He can't be here, but I'm sure he is thinking about her," said Suzanne Marshall, 53. "We played Back to Black this morning - there were a lot of tears, and we will be raising a drink to her tonight in the Hawley Arms."
Wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with Winehouse's image, 18-year-old Joshua Burke Murphy said he wanted to mark the event and pay his respects. "She is a legend, a very important person of our times, so I didn't want to miss her funeral."
A postmortem examination carried out on Monday failed to establish the cause of the singer's death. Further toxicology tests will take two to four weeks.
Winehouse, who fought a well-documented battle with drugs and alcohol, was found dead at her home in Camden by her bodyguard at about 4pm on Saturday. Her father said on Tuesday he wants to create the Amy Winehouse Foundation, to help those struggling with substance abuse.
Father's tribute
"Amy was the greatest daughter, family member and friend you could ever have.
"I will talk a lot about her fantastic recovery. Recently Amy found love with Reg. He helped her with her problems and Amy was looking forward to their future together.
"She was the happiest she has been for years. We all remember that great night at the 100 Club on Oxford Street, her voice was good, her wit and timing were perfect.
"She told me that she had 'thoroughly, thoroughly enjoyed herself'.
"The last time she called me she had found a box of old family photos and called me to go over to look. We spoke three times a day at least, she was very excited.
"Three years ago, Amy conquered her drug dependency, the doctors said it was impossible but she really did it. She was trying hard to deal with her drinking and had just completed three weeks of abstinence.
"She said, 'Dad I've had enough of drinking, I can't stand the look on your and the family's faces anymore'.
"She was not depressed. She saw Janis and Reg on Friday and was in good spirits.
"That night, she was in her room, playing drums and singing. As it was late, her security guard said to keep it quiet and she did. He heard her walking around for a while and when he went to check on her in the morning he thought she was asleep. He went back a few hours later, that was when he realised she was not breathing and called for help.
"But knowing she wasn't depressed, knowing she passed away, knowing she passed away happy, it makes us all feel better.
"I was in New York with my cousin Michael when I heard and straight away I said I wanted an Amy Winehouse Foundation, something to help the things she loved - children, horses, but also to help those struggling with substance abuse.
"In this country, if you cannot afford a private rehabilitation clinic, there is a two-year waiting list for help. With the help of Keith Vaz MP, we are trying to change that."
Our condolences & prayers go out to the Winehouse family, as this was truly a tragic lost. May your music last forever, Amy.
